Dating is fun light-hearted and exciting but to ensure you do it in the safest experience, here @ eaimee, we have put together our best first safe dates advice plus DO’S and DON’T’S to help you get the most out of your journey and lead to something meaningful . Our team works hard to protect our eAimee members while keeping the site relaxed, friendly and enjoyable. To ensure that you have the safest experience, always use your best judgment when dating.
Would’nt it be great if there was one definitive road map to dating – Unfortunately, there is no such thing but eAimee is packed full of useful tips and advice about every aspect of dating and relationships. If you are worried about your first date or you are wondering how to make the first step, check our guide below.
Only send or reply to messages to people you are interested in getting to know
Always be respectful and treat any contacts as you would want them to treat you.
Carry a fully mobile phone with easy access to emergency numbers.
Keep dialogue on the site until you have built rapport
Be yourself – imperfections and all
Report any concerns to our team
Respect others’ opinions and decisions
Show your caring nature
Choose the time and place of your date wisely.
Be prepared -arrange your own transport
Meet in a public place at a decent hour during which lots of people will be around
Confide at least to one friend or family member about your plans and when you will return
Don’t message multiples people with the same message at the same time
Don’t be loud, aggressive or offensive
Don’t let high hopes cloud your ability to exercise reasonable caution
Don’t give contact details until you’re ready to meet
Don’t meet at your house or place of work until you have had a good chance to know them
Don’t let your date pick you up from your home on your first meeting
Don’t use fake, outdated or modified photos
Don’t stand for abuse, or a bully
Don’t harass people or be arrogant
Don’t respond aggressively to rejection
Don’t give out your credit card number or bank information.
♥First Safe Date Advice
We want to give you the best chance for a long and happy relationship and when it comes to your personal safety, you are in ultimate control.
Do your own Research before you go on first date. Remember that you have control over the situation, don’t ignore any facts that seem inconsistent or off putting. Trust your instincts and If you’re talking to someone online or by phone and they say things that raise your suspicions, consider ending the conversation and taking advantage of our Block button on their profile
Never give money. If someone you are communicating with on dev.eaimee.com asks you for money or your bank details they are likely to be a scammer.
Immediately stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for personal or financial information or attempts in any way to trick you into revealing it
Be cautious when sharing personal information that could reveal your identity. Never include your last name, email address, home address, telephone number, place of work or any other identifying information in your Internet profile or initial email messages.
Use eAimee messaging for a secure and completely anonymous Communication process, and resist the urge to provide a personal email or phone number right away, no matter how strong you feel about your connection
Wait until you know someone a little better before you share your contact details. If someone asks for your number straight away, politely decline.
If you have concerns about a particular contact, or someone has been rude to you please do not hesitate to contact us so that appropriate steps can be taken to keep eaimee safe for all. Stay connected and make sure your phone is charged before your date.
As with any personal interaction, keep in mind it is always possible for people to misrepresent themselves. Assessing a contact’s truthfulness and honesty is ultimately your responsibility. If you’re out on a date and you feel uncomfortable, leave and use block button. Be cautious of these types of people: immediately requests to talk or chat on an outside email or messaging service.
Claim to be from a country but is currently living, working, or traveling to different countries
Asks for money, goods or any similar type of assistance, especially if you have never met in person. Asks you to assist with personal transactions (depositing funds, shipping merchandise, etc).
Wants the relationship to progress faster than you are comfortable going.
Reports a sudden personal crisis and pressures you to provide financial assistance. Be especially wary if the person’s demands become increasingly aggressive.
Asks inappropriate questions. Requests your home or work address under the guise of sending flowers or gifts.
Tells inconsistent or grandiose stories.Insists on getting overly close, very fast.
Disappears suddenly from the site then reappears under a different name.
If a member does any of the above activities or makes you suspicious, please report to email@example.com so we can investigate
When accessing your account from a public or shared computer, use caution and be aware of your surroundings so that others are not able to view or record your password or other personal information.
Be cautious before opening any URL link. As a general practice, you should always use good judgment and be cautious when deciding to click on any URL that lead to web pages which look similar or identical to the eaimee homepage. Phishing scammers would typically send these as an attempt to steal for log-in information in order to compromise your accounts. You should report any such behavior to eaimee immediately. When accessing your account it is advised to type or copy and paste the full url (example: www.dev.eaimee.com)
We strongly encourage you to use eaimee’s anonymous messaging system as long as necessary to find out as much about your contact as is reasonably possible.
Not every contact is going to be right for you so closing communication with contacts and having contacts close communication with you is a natural and healthy part of the process. eAimee is about bringing two compatible souls together who have a solid foundation from which a long-term relationship would have a high probability of success. If you feel the need to end communication, then be honest, direct and polite. The sooner you address this determination, the better for both of you.
If a contact feels the need to close communication with you, please respect their wishes.
We hope these guidelines will help to make your eaimee journey a huge success, and you find your eAimee .